Relatives' Heartache Over Shoreline Erosion Threatening Norfolk Graves
Loved ones of people buried in graves at risk from shoreline retreat argue that indecision over how to tackle the issue is creating avoidable anguish concerning the final resting places of their loved ones.
An Impending Danger to Historic Churchyards
The council have singled out three church graveyards in the communities of Happisburgh, Mundesley, and Trimingham as being at risk of being swallowed by the sea in the next few generations.
A recent report on the situation sets out a series of possible actions, from taking no action to exhuming remains and reburying them in safer locations. Officials say it is for local people to determine how to move forward.
“At the moment we’re in a state of uncertainty. It causes me distress. My parents intended this to be their last home, but it won't be because of the sea.”
Projections suggest at least a portion of one graveyard could fall into the sea in the next 80 years, but some residents fear it will happen far earlier. “I think it’s got under 20 years, if you look at what’s happened in the last 30 years,” one said.
Haunted by the Ghosts of Eccles
One resident recalled a childhood visit to the nearby village of Eccles, which has almost entirely disappeared into the water, along with its place of worship and burial ground.
“You could see people’s bones,” she said. “Certain people hold this romantic idea that people’s remains will just get carried away to the ocean. They won’t. People will collect remains as mementos and go plundering graves looking for valuables. That is completely undignified.”
“I’m worried that the same thing that happened at Eccles will occur here and there’ll be bones on the beach. I’d be appalled by that.”
A Soldier's Resting Place in Peril
Further up the coast is situated the burial plot of a former paratrooper killed while working overseas. His parent expressed she could not sleep after learning her child's grave might one day be relocated.
“It does disturb me to consider this may not remain his permanent home,” she said. “To our family it’s an significant place to go.”
She believes, new burials should stop but says it is premature to exhume current plots. “What I would choose for now is to take no action and watch carefully, but an timely resolution must be made when a critical moment has been attained.”
Seeking Answers and Certainty
An absence of consensus over when and how to tackle the challenge has resulted in grieving relatives feeling frustrated and worried.
Several families are calling for more sea defences to delay the inevitable erosion and to allow burials to proceed for now. Different voices argue the moment for moving graves is approaching.
“It is very emotive,” said one relative. “The official study was thorough, but now there’s confusion about how it is taken forward. And all parties is washing their hands over who is responsible.”
A local official said the burial sites were under the care of the local diocese. “In the end it is up to them to decide the path to take. Our role is here to help support them through that journey with residents.”
It was also stated there was time to consider all the choices. “We are talking decades before it begins getting lost.”
“There is no common view on what should be done yet. We need productive community discussions to discover the appropriate answers for each community.”
The prospect of losing the historic sites was labeled one of “profound sadness for the area,” but faith leaders also spoke of a belief in life after death, offering a spiritual perspective on the temporal loss of sacred ground.